Thinky Things
Thinky, Feely, Funny Stuff — for making sense of you
This is an ever-growing collection of articles and reflections about how humans think, feel, decide, react, communicate, tie themselves in knots, misunderstand each other — and occasionally surprise themselves.
These reflections grew out of:
- years of working with clients and trainees.
- noticing patterns that show up again and again — in conversations, relationships, work, stress, confidence, humour, and change.
- a single question or thought that wouldn’t leave me alone.
- conversations, recorded and shared here as short podcast or audio pieces.
You’ll find ideas here about thinking and mindset, emotions and self-talk, communication, values, resilience, motivation, and the quieter inner stuff that’s harder to name.
They’re written with care, not haste.
There are well over a hundred articles here now, so if you’re looking for something specific — a word, a theme, a question that keeps popping into your head — the search icon in the top right corner can be surprisingly helpful. Or use the category filters under the Thinky Things drop down menu.
You might want to settle in. There’s plenty to explore.
Thinky Things
Thinky, Feely, Funny Stuff — for making sense of you
Phobias—Breaking Free From Irrational Fears With NLP
Phobias can feel overwhelming-yet irrational, but with NLP, breaking free is simpler than you might think. But there is a stress-free way to conquer your fears and regain control and calm.
The Solution Mindset: The Magic Of Belief And Persistence
Believing there are solutions to every problem keeps us searching, innovating, and persevering. Whether through inspiration or persistence, a solution is always waiting to be found.
Quick And Easy Recipes To Regain Emotional Balance
Emotional balance is about regaining control when life’s little ups and downs throws us off course, or we feel overwhelmed by emotions.
NLP Map Of The World: Why We All Experience Reality Differently
Your mental map, aka NLP Map of the world, is your perception of reality. Perception is very different from reality because we filter out most of the information available to us. Find out why, and how.
Change Your Mind – And Keep The Change!
Change your mind and break free from autopilot thinking. Rewire your brain, and take control of your behaviours for lasting change with mental rehearsal!
Ask ‘Why’ And Get Nowhere Fast: Here’s Why!
Ever wondered why asking “Why?” often backfires? Discover how this tiny word can spark big problems—and learn the smarter questions that lead to real answers.
Belief And The Placebo Effect: Is Your Mind Leading You Astray?
Discover how your belief system shapes your reality. Learn to challenge and change negative beliefs, and explore the surprising power of placebos in influencing your mind.
Logical Levels: Your Ultimate Toolkit For Innovative Problem Solving
Master problem-solving with Logical Levels: a framework for understanding and addressing issues from multiple perspectives, empowering creative, confident, and resilient solutions.
Shhh! The Secret Power Of Silence In Problem Solving
Silence might be the last thing you think about in relation to problem solving. Yet the secret power of silence can have magical effects, often leading to deep reflection and new insights.
Fun and Laughter: The Secret to Thriving in Turbulent Times
Discover the power of fun and laughter in my latest blog and podcast! Join me and Aaron as we explore humour’s role in navigating life’s challenges. Listen now!
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