Thinky Things
Thinky, Feely, Funny Stuff — for making sense of you
This is an ever-growing collection of articles and reflections about how humans think, feel, decide, react, communicate, tie themselves in knots, misunderstand each other — and occasionally surprise themselves.
These reflections grew out of:
- years of working with clients and trainees.
- noticing patterns that show up again and again — in conversations, relationships, work, stress, confidence, humour, and change.
- a single question or thought that wouldn’t leave me alone.
- conversations, recorded and shared here as short podcast or audio pieces.
You’ll find ideas here about thinking and mindset, emotions and self-talk, communication, values, resilience, motivation, and the quieter inner stuff that’s harder to name.
They’re written with care, not haste.
There are well over a hundred articles here now, so if you’re looking for something specific — a word, a theme, a question that keeps popping into your head — the search icon in the top right corner can be surprisingly helpful. Or use the category filters under the Thinky Things drop down menu.
You might want to settle in. There’s plenty to explore.
Thinky Things
Thinky, Feely, Funny Stuff — for making sense of you
The Power of Mind-Body Language: How Words Shape Your Health and Mood
Discover how mind-body language reveals what’s really happening inside you — and how changing your words can change your health, mood, and mindset.
The Hidden Power of Language: How Words Mess With Your Mind (and Make You Laugh)
Discover the hidden power of language: How tiny language shifts can change your mood, meaning — or send you off to war! Funny, practical insights into the real power of words.
How To Protect Yourself From Bullying — By Changing Your Mind
If you change the way you think about someone, it will change your response to them. Find out how to deal with bullies by changing your own mind first. Too good to be true? Read MJ’s case study about how changing her mind stopped her boss’s bullying behaviour dead in it’s tracks.
How Your Mental Landscape Affects Your Real Life Relationships
Your mental landscape shapes your reality and your relationships. Discover how your inner world impacts your life and learn practical tips to create a more harmonious external life.
You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know
You can’t change a pattern you haven’t noticed. Discover how blind spots keep us stuck — and how greater awareness can give us more choice about what we do next.
The Power of Positive Language: How Your Words Rewire Your Brain and Body
Discover how the words you use affect your brain, body, and focus. Learn why positive language matters, how your RAS filters information, and what happens when you flip your inner dialogue.
Broken Promises: What You’re Really Saying When You Don’t Follow Through
Broken promises might seem small — a missed call, an unkept commitment. But they send silent signals that can quietly damage trust, connection, and integrity.
Does Your Lucky Charm Really Work – The Astounding Truth!
Lucky charm or mind trick? Pelé swore by his, and science backs the power of belief. Discover how lucky objects shape success—and how to create your own!
6 Research-Backed Ways to Create Magical Synchronicity
Synchronicity isn’t just a coincidence—it’s a sign the universe might be winking at you! Discover 6 research-backed ways to invite more magical synchronicity into your life.
Temporal Perception: Healing Through the Illusion of Time
Temporal perception—how we think about time—isn’t fixed—it’s a mental construct. Science and spirituality agree that by shifting how we experience time, we can heal the past and transform the future.
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