Are you waiting to be happy when you finish work, buy the house, take the trip or achieve the next thing? This post explores how making happiness part of your identity can help you stop putting it on hold.
Thinking and mindset
Sorry, Reality Is Optional
Reality is optional: how beliefs, moods, rapport and language shape what we notice, hear and assume about the same event.
How to Choose Professional Development That’s Worth the Money
How do you choose professional development that’s worth your time and money? These nine questions will help you compare the real value before you enrol.
Five Reasons People Choose NLP Training When Something Needs to Change
Curious about NLP training? Explore five reasons people choose it, from changing old patterns and managing overwhelm to communicating more effectively with others.
Two Escaped Cows, a Frustrated Farmer and the Power of State
Two escaped cows reminded me why state matters more than motivation. Discover how changing your state can change your behaviour, decisions and what’s possible.
The Gentle Power of Curiosity
Curiosity begins with two simple words: “That’s interesting…” What happens next can change how you think, listen and relate to yourself and others.
A Shark, a Sheepdog… and a Shift in Perspective
A warning shouted at an actor in JAWS. A dog with his own agenda. A light-hearted look at what makes something funny — and how humour can quietly shift your perspective.
How to Stop People Pleasing — Without Losing Yourself
If your sense of worth is tangled up with being useful, stopping people pleasing can feel like losing yourself. It doesn’t have to. Here’s where the pattern begins — and how to update it.
The Mind’s Control Panel: Why Your Brain Won’t Stop Twiddling the Dials
Peek inside The Mind’s Control Panel and learn how your internal settings influence your mood, confidence, and reactions. Small tweaks, big shifts — and surprisingly good fun.
Decluttering and Self-Discovery: Your Home Is a Mirror, Not a Museum
Discover how decluttering isn’t just about stuff — it’s about identity. How decluttering helped me let go of old versions of myself and create more freedom, clarity, and peace.









