Discover eight counterintuitive ways to improve your influence with integrity through better listening, clearer communication, trust and genuine openness to disagreement.
Self-awareness
How To Be Happy: Is It Really This Simple?
Are you waiting to be happy when you finish work, buy the house, take the trip or achieve the next thing? This post explores how making happiness part of your identity can help you stop putting it on hold.
Sorry, Reality Is Optional
Reality is optional: how beliefs, moods, rapport and language shape what we notice, hear and assume about the same event.
How to Choose Professional Development That’s Worth the Money
How do you choose professional development that’s worth your time and money? These nine questions will help you compare the real value before you enrol.
Five Reasons People Choose NLP Training When Something Needs to Change
Curious about NLP training? Explore five reasons people choose it, from changing old patterns and managing overwhelm to communicating more effectively with others.
Two Escaped Cows, a Frustrated Farmer and the Power of State
Two escaped cows reminded me why state matters more than motivation. Discover how changing your state can change your behaviour, decisions and what’s possible.
The Gentle Power of Curiosity
Curiosity begins with two simple words: “That’s interesting…” What happens next can change how you think, listen and relate to yourself and others.
My Playlists Proved My Identity Isn’t So Stable
A few seconds into a song… and suddenly you’re not here anymore. You’re back there — thinking, feeling, being someone you used to be.
A Shark, a Sheepdog… and a Shift in Perspective
A warning shouted at an actor in JAWS. A dog with his own agenda. A light-hearted look at what makes something funny — and how humour can quietly shift your perspective.
The Quiet Signs You’re Outgrowing Your Life
Change doesn’t always arrive with a bang. Sometimes it shows up in small, unsettling ways — in what you notice, what you want, and what no longer feels right.









