Discover eight counterintuitive ways to improve your influence with integrity through better listening, clearer communication, trust and genuine openness to disagreement.
8 Counterintuitive Ways To Increase Your Influence
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Communication skills
Sorry, Reality Is Optional
Reality is optional: how beliefs, moods, rapport and language shape what we notice, hear and assume about the same event.
Filtering Experience: Why I Saw a Bird on My Toilet Seat
Filtering experience affects what you notice, ignore and assume. It also explains why I spent three years seeing a bird on my toilet seat
How to Choose Professional Development That’s Worth the Money
How do you choose professional development that’s worth your time and money? These nine questions will help you compare the real value before you enrol.
The Gentle Power of Curiosity
Curiosity begins with two simple words: “That’s interesting…” What happens next can change how you think, listen and relate to yourself and others.
How to Deal With Guilt Without Feeling Guilty
Even if you’re a good person, guilt has sneaky way of making an everyday situation feel like a crime worth sentencing. But not all guilt is of the same variety. Differentiation might be the key to dissolution.
The Hidden Power of Language: How Words Mess With Your Mind (and Make You Laugh)
Discover the hidden power of language: How tiny language shifts can change your mood, meaning — or send you off to war! Funny, practical insights into the real power of words.
How To Protect Yourself From Bullying — By Changing Your Mind
If you change the way you think about someone, it will change your response to them. Find out how to deal with bullies by changing your own mind first. Too good to be true? Read MJ’s case study about how changing her mind stopped her boss’s bullying behaviour dead in it’s tracks.
The Power of Positive Language: How Your Words Rewire Your Brain and Body
Discover how the words you use affect your brain, body, and focus. Learn why positive language matters, how your RAS filters information, and what happens when you flip your inner dialogue.
Broken Promises: What You’re Really Saying When You Don’t Follow Through
Broken promises might seem small — a missed call, an unkept commitment. But they send silent signals that can quietly damage trust, connection, and integrity.