Shyness is not a permanent ‘condition’, but behaviours that result from an individual’s thinking patterns. Thinking patterns, and thus behaviour can be changed, you just need to know how. This post will give you the tools to break free.
NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming)
Your lack of soft skills could be holding you back; in your career, in your relationships, and even socially. It’s a common misperception that people either have these skills as personality traits — or they don’t. Read on to see if you have what it takes.
It doesn’t matter how big or small your brain is — you’re still susceptible to anchoring. While we use anchoring to train our pets, we are as easily manipulated as any other animal — sometimes more so!
As humans, we long for a connection that develops from deep rapport, but may not be sure how to achieve it. Learn how to create that feeling of being in sync with another.
It’s through influence that we grow and develop. After all, others have influenced us our entire lives; parents, caregivers, teachers, social networks, work, and media, etc. But that doesn’t mean you have to leave influence to chance.
Do you complain about your memory — or lack thereof?
We have 86 billion brain cells, and while yes, we lose some of those cells each day, we also grow more. What I’ve found is that most people don’t have a memory problem, they have a paying attention problem!
It can be challenging to resolve a problem. So, who would have thought that changing a noun back into a verb would make the job easier? This isn’t a post for grammar geeks — but if you are one, you’ll no doubt find it fun.
Your memory is not as reliable as you might think. When you ‘re-member’ something, you essentially re-create or re-collect the elements of the experience in your mind. So each time you re-member something, you change it in some way.
Your mental map, aka NLP Map of the world, is your perception of reality. Perception is very different from reality because we filter out most of the information available to us. Find out why, and how.
You don’t have to suffer from painful memories when there are plenty of quick and easy techniques from NLP that will help you feel better fast. You’ll find three you can try out in this post.