Are you waiting to be happy when you finish work, buy the house, take the trip or achieve the next thing? This post explores how making happiness part of your identity can help you stop putting it on hold.
Happiness and Humour
Five Reasons People Choose NLP Training When Something Needs to Change
Curious about NLP training? Explore five reasons people choose it, from changing old patterns and managing overwhelm to communicating more effectively with others.
Two Escaped Cows, a Frustrated Farmer and the Power of State
Two escaped cows reminded me why state matters more than motivation. Discover how changing your state can change your behaviour, decisions and what’s possible.
My Playlists Proved My Identity Isn’t So Stable
A few seconds into a song… and suddenly you’re not here anymore. You’re back there — thinking, feeling, being someone you used to be.
A Shark, a Sheepdog… and a Shift in Perspective
A warning shouted at an actor in JAWS. A dog with his own agenda. A light-hearted look at what makes something funny — and how humour can quietly shift your perspective.
The Curry That Upstaged the Tiny House
After my tiny house video went live on Living Big in a Tiny House, I expected comments about the design, the layout, maybe the parrot. But no, they wanted the recipe for dinner.
Nothing’s Wrong… So Why Does Everything Feel Wrong?
Feeling restless or out of place in your own life? You may be experiencing an identity shift. Here’s why it happens — and how to understand it.
How to Stop People Pleasing (Without Losing Yourself)
If your sense of worth is tangled up with being useful, stopping people pleasing can feel like losing yourself. It doesn’t have to. Here’s where the pattern begins — and how to update it.
How to Deal With Guilt Without Feeling Guilty
Even if you’re a good person, guilt has sneaky way of making an everyday situation feel like a crime worth sentencing. But not all guilt is of the same variety. Differentiation might be the key to dissolution.
The Mind’s Control Panel: Why Your Brain Won’t Stop Twiddling the Dials
Peek inside The Mind’s Control Panel and learn how your internal settings influence your mood, confidence, and reactions. Small tweaks, big shifts — and surprisingly good fun.









