As humans, we long for a connection that develops from deep rapport, but may not be sure how to achieve it. Learn how to create that feeling of being in sync with another.
It’s through influence that we grow and develop. After all, others have influenced us our entire lives; parents, caregivers, teachers, social networks, work, and media, etc. But that doesn’t mean you have to leave influence to chance.
Do you complain about your memory — or lack thereof?
We have 86 billion brain cells, and while yes, we lose some of those cells each day, we also grow more. What I’ve found is that most people don’t have a memory problem, they have a paying attention problem!
Mind reading — instead of owning your opinions and beliefs — can get you into trouble, and prevent you from resolving your problems. Read on to discover ways to wrestle back control by owning your language.
Your memory is not as reliable as you might think. When you ‘re-member’ something, you essentially re-create or re-collect the elements of the experience in your mind. So each time you re-member something, you change it in some way.
Your mental map, aka NLP Map of the world, is your perception of reality. Perception is very different from reality because we filter out most of the information available to us. Find out why, and how.
Maintaining any emotional state requires focus and resolve. For example, to prolong laughter, you would keep reminding yourself of the original funny incident or joke. So how do you maintain a rotten mood?
Improve your sense of humour and develop your verbal, non-verbal and emotional intelligence at the same time. Need other reasons? Apart from fun, many singles list a sense of humour as an important attribute in a potential mate.
You can damage your credibility in an instant, and then you have to work extra hard to regain it. Without self-and-other-awareness you may not even realise the impact of your behaviour. That’s why it’s important to mind your meta-messages. What’s a meta-message? Read on to find out.
Failure is a dirty word for most people. There will always be people around to offer advice; most of it vague, patronising and not particularly useful! Learning from failure gives us the opportunity to move on and create the success we truly want. This post will help you glean all those learnings.